10/06/2026
This week is British Heart Week so today we hear from mum Vikki about how our Heart Buddies scheme helped little Clemmie 💛
Our daughter had surgery to correct her VSD when she was 16 weeks old. I didn’t realise it at the time, but it was the anniversary of her embryo transfer. After six years of trying, and four failed IVF cycles, it might have seemed like a good omen.
To tell the truth, Clemmie never seemed that ill to us before the surgery. Although her VSD was quite large, it was partially covered by some tissue from a heart valve which meant she never got really breathless, and her muscle tone was relatively good. It’s only now we look back that we can see how small and pale she was.
The day of the surgery we had to arrive at hospital early. Clemmie had to have an empty stomach so she was clearly hungry, but she was so good, playing with her dad and cuddling into us in her little gown. We took her through to the anaesthetists and stayed with her while they put her under, and then we left her. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do.
The surgery lasted about 5 hours. We had spoken to our heart buddy, and they advised us to keep busy, but the feeling of relief when we got the call to say that all had gone well was overwhelming.
It was hard to see her after surgery, puffy and swollen and with countless wires and tubes coming out of her, but from the moment we got that call we were never really scared for her - we knew she was in good hands and we just had to give her time to heal. We spent five nights in PICU, followed by two nights on the ward.
She’ll have annual checks, but we don’t anticipate any further surgeries. We’re so proud of her, and so grateful to all the amazing medical professionals and PADS’ Heart Buddies we encountered along the way.’
💚You can find our resources about heart health (including our heart buddy scheme) here: https://downsyndromeuk.co.uk/health/heart/ 💚
📷 A graphic in the shape of a heart which explains the heart buddies scheme.
Heart health, Down syndrome, parents supporting parents, emotional support,