05/10/2024
This is Our Ella.
Born in April 2004, Ella was our second Daughter.
At 6 weeks old she became unwell with a high temperature and vomiting, we were sent to A & E, Ella was admitted to the ward to be monitored.
A nurse on the ward noticed that Ella’s eyes were ‘bobbing’ this along with the high temperature and vomiting were all signs of pressure in her head.
Ella was sent for an urgent CT scan, the next morning we were told she had a brain tumour.
The only way she was going to survive was to have surgery to remove the tumour.
The surgery was 8 hours long and did not go well, her heart stopped beating for 25 minutes, when they got her back the surgeons took the decision to stop the operation and allow us to say goodbye, they predicted she would not survive the next 24 hours.
Ella continued to fight, a week later they attempted the surgery again and succeeded.
We knew Ella’s future was uncertain, we had regular scans and checkups, she was developing but slowly and definitely had weakness in her limbs but she was a happy child.
A year after the first surgery, a scan showed the tumour was growing again, Ella was referred to oncology and she started a course of chemotherapy, tests after showed the tumour had not shrunk.
We were told Ella had 4-6 months.
We carried on with life as best we could taking each day at a time. Each scan showed the tumour being the same size as it was before but for some reason it had stopped growing, we were told that she would not live to see her 5th Birthday.
Ella’s health wasn’t great, she had epilepsy, cerebral palsy affecting all 4 limbs, she was tube fed and susceptible to chest infections, we spent a lot of time in hospital or at Helen House hospice, despite this she was a happy child with a beautiful smile and giggle that would make anyone laugh along with her.
In April 2009 Ella turned 5, we threw a big party and invited everyone who was close to her.
In June 2009, Ella became unwell, we knew it was different, scans showed the tumour was growing again.
On 11th June 2009, Ella peacefully passed away at Helen House hospice.
We didn’t know at the time that Ella and our other 3 children were carriers of the Li-Fraumeni Syndrome.
Always in our Thoughts
Forever in our Hearts 💕