14/07/2026
Who knew waiting for results could be one of the hardest parts?
This time last year, I went to my GP after noticing a dent in my breast. I had no idea how much my life was about to change.
Fast forward a year, and tomorrow I'll be sitting in another clinic, waiting to hear the pathology results from my recent thyroid surgery.
I won't lie... I'm scared.
Scared of hearing those words again. Scared of what the results might mean. Scared of having to face more treatment, more uncertainty, and more waiting.
It feels like every time I manage to pick myself back up, something comes along and knocks me back down again...and I am worn out.
One thing I've learned over the past year is that waiting is its own kind of battle.
People often focus on appointments, surgery and treatment, but the waiting... the waiting can be unbearable. Your mind fills in the blanks, every ache suddenly means something, and the "what ifs" become so loud.
If you're in that place right now, here are a few things that I try...can't say they always help but I try...
💙 Take it one moment at a time. You don't have to have all the answers today.
💙 Keep your routine where you can—it gives your mind something else to focus on.
💙 Talk to someone you trust. Saying your fears out loud can make them feel a little less heavy.
💙 Let yourself feel whatever comes up. There is no right or wrong way to wait.
💙 Be gentle with yourself. You're carrying a lot, even if nobody else can see it.
💙 And remember, whatever tomorrow brings, you will deal with it one step at a time. You don't have to face it all at once.
Tonight, I'll probably still worry. That's normal. But I'm also reminding myself that I've got through every difficult day so far, even the ones I never thought I would.
If you're waiting for results too, I'm holding you in my thoughts. I know how incredibly hard this part is.
Please be kind to yourself.