04/06/2026
“This was the second diagnosis of cancer within three years.
“My husband had first been diagnosed in 2021. Initially, we thought it had been a reaction the flu jab. They had drained the lump as they thought it was a cyst, but after several procedures, the medical team decided an MRI was needed. The consultant said, with little comfort, ‘well, he isn’t riddled with cancer.’
“It was only on reflection after the MRI appointment we realised, we realised the consultant hadn’t meant he was clear of cancer.
“A week later my husband had a biopsy and then his tonsil removed – it was cancer. He was more prepared than I was and I found him trying to protect me by not sharing…
“You plan your life, you don’t plan for cancer. This was something that you hear happening to others, not us.
“We had moved to the Isle of Wight as part of our future retirement plans. Immediately, things were changing…
“After the operation, my husband required additional care and support. I was helping him with medication and helping to feed him…
“To cope, my husband just focused on getting better. As he should. He had switched off, just to put all his energy into getting through the throat cancer…
“You don’t want anyone to experience anything like this… I didn’t want to put the additional burden of how I was feeling on my son or husband. I realised that in order to support my husband, I also needed support.
“I had connected with Wessex early on. The support we received was brilliant…
“That’s why it’s important people know that services like Wessex exist. Everybody’s experience is different, but as a carer, knowing that support is available for you as well as the person with the diagnosis makes all the difference…
“…we’ve made some really good friends through this experience…
“We’re back to planning our holidays, continue to enjoy going to music festivals and… enjoying our new life here on the Isle of Wight.”
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