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Together for Short Lives We are the UK charity for children and young people who are expected to have short lives That’s one in every 270 children—the equivalent of one in every school.

99,000 children and young people are living in the UK with health conditions that are life-shortening or life-threatening—and the number is rising. Hearing the news that your child has a life-shortening condition and is likely to die young is devastating. It’s an incredibly distressing and confusing time. These children have very complex and unpredictable conditions and often need round the clock care, seven days a week. Families have to cope with the knowledge that their child will die before them, and daily life for the whole family can become challenging. Although there are many excellent services helping them, these families still have to fight to get the care and support they need. Together for Short Lives is here for every one of these children and their families, being a companion to parents on their journey so they know where to go for support and have the information to help them make the right choices about their child’s care. We are here to help children and their families to access specialist children’s palliative care services, day and night, seven days a week—when and where they need it. Together for Short Lives also supports all the professionals, children’s palliative care services and children’s hospices that deliver lifeline care to children and families across the UK. By working together with professionals and organisations we provide a strong and unified voice, and help services deliver the best quality care and support tailored to each family’s needs.

Would you like to join us for our next virtual coffee morning?☕ Taking place on the first Friday of every month, our cof...
02/11/2026

Would you like to join us for our next virtual coffee morning?☕
Taking place on the first Friday of every month, our coffee mornings are a safe space to meet like minded people who know just what it's like to care for a seriously ill child.
Our next meeting takes place this Friday 6 November at 10am. You'll find the link to sign up in the comments below.

We know the reality of caring for a child with serious illness can make it difficult to prioritise everyday things, like...
30/10/2026

We know the reality of caring for a child with serious illness can make it difficult to prioritise everyday things, like energy bills. Many families are also dealing with higher energy bills, due to powering life-sustaining machinery or needing to maintain an even temperature in the home for important health reasons.

We're here to help. Our energy support provides the opportunity to talk one-to-one with an advisor, who can:
- Give you tailored support with getting bills under control.
- Check your eligibility for a range of UK energy grants.
- Help you access free or lower cost energy saving upgrades to your home.

To get support, simply send an email to
📧[email protected]
Our energy advice service is part of the Safe and Warm Partnership network from SGN.

Playing What a Lotto is just one of the many ways you can support Together for Short Lives.💜Sign up to be in with a chan...
29/10/2026

Playing What a Lotto is just one of the many ways you can support Together for Short Lives.💜

Sign up to be in with a chance of winning daily prizes up to £2,000, a £25,000 monthly jackpot and a prize promised for every player.

Follow the link in the comments below to find out more and subscribe.

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Tonight an awards ceremony with a difference will take place: the inaugural Harry's Pledge Awards will be shining a ligh...
29/10/2026

Tonight an awards ceremony with a difference will take place: the inaugural Harry's Pledge Awards will be shining a light on the organisations and individuals making a positive difference to the lives of carers and people with disabilities.

The awards are hosted by Harry's Pals Charity, which we've been proud to work alongside for several years now. We stand in admiration of the support they've provided to so many families, and of their campaigning work for better recognition and support for paid and unpaid carers.

Pictured: Hayley with her son Harry. Hayley's experience caring for Harry from a young age inspired her to start Harry's Pals 💜

Today's Budget brings some positive news for families caring for children with serious illnesses. We're pleased to see:✅...
28/10/2026

Today's Budget brings some positive news for families caring for children with serious illnesses. We're pleased to see:

✅ Changes to Carer's Allowance could help more carers stay in work without losing vital support.
✅ New measures could help families cope with the extra energy costs that often come with caring for a seriously ill child.

But there's a major missed opportunity:
❌ The government has not committed to closing the £310 million annual funding gap in children's palliative care.
❌ Families are still facing an unfair postcode lottery when it comes to accessing the care and support they need.

Children with serious illnesses and their families deserve better.

Find the link to our full response in the comments below.
💙 Please share to help raise awareness.

“Children’s hospices are often the first place you meet other families who truly understand. In hospital, you’re focused...
26/10/2026

“Children’s hospices are often the first place you meet other families who truly understand. In hospital, you’re focused on crisis. At home, you’re isolated. Baby groups don’t work when your child has complex medical needs. But at the hospice, during respite days and community events, there’s space to talk, to connect, to realise you’re not alone.”

When Dan McEvoy’s daughter Elisa was diagnosed with complex medical needs as a toddler, he says hospice care became “a vital part of our family’s support structure,” right from diagnosis until Elisa's death aged 9, and beyond.

Dan has since become a passionate advocate for the value of children’s palliative care. But three years on from Elisa’s death, access to that care remains inconsistent, inequitable and financially fragile.

To shape a better future for children’s palliative care, we’re asking families with experience of caring for a child with serious illness, alongside professionals, services, charities, academics and policymakers, to take a few moments to fill in our survey.

💜 Our survey closes one week today - Monday 2 November at 11.59pm. Head to the link in the comments to add your voice.

23/10/2026

If you have experience of caring for a child with serious illness, your views matter. Please take a few minutes to complete our short survey (link in comments), to help shape the care and support that families will have access to in the future.

We’re extremely grateful to parents like Paul Woodward, patron of Derian House, for speaking out to help shape a national vision for children’s palliative care.

Survey link in the comments below.
🗓️ Please complete it by Monday 2 November.

21/10/2026

"Transport for families whose children are living with serious illness is a huge expense, especially when they're driving regularly to a hospital." - Dee, Tilly's mum

Together, let's support the call by Great Ormond Street Hospital and Charity to ensure that travel for children with serious illness who need specialist treatment is properly funded.

This year, the government announced a £10 million travel fund to help families of children with cancer with the costs of getting to hospital. This is an important and welcome commitment – and now we need to make sure that every seriously ill child can benefit from support.

Sign the petition via the link in our comments 💜

16/10/2026

"As a parent who cared for a medically complex child for 14 years, I understand the difficulties that parents face on a daily basis, constantly fighting and navigating a very complex system simply to get the care and support that their child needs."

We're incredibly lucky to have parents like Stephanie helping us to develop a National Vision for Children’s Palliative Care, sharing their first-hand experiences of what matters most to families.

If you've cared for a child with serious illness in the UK, your views matter too.

By taking a few minutes to complete our survey, you can help shape how children and families are supported in the future.

Follow the link in the comments to add your voice. 📢

We light our candles and join families around the world in remembering their precious babies gone too soon. Share photos...
15/10/2026

We light our candles and join families around the world in remembering their precious babies gone too soon.

Share photos of your candles or post a 💜 in the comments to show other families they're not alone.

Our Family Support Hub is here for you, even if you just need a listening ear: https://bit.ly/3PXtUno

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