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Merry Christmas to YOU!
25/12/2025

Merry Christmas to YOU!

23/12/2025

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A few photos from September’s LAPFestival in Wissen, Germany with a bunch of bands we’ve been serving for years & some n...
02/12/2025

A few photos from September’s LAPFestival in Wissen, Germany with a bunch of bands we’ve been serving for years & some new friends too! Last pic- our friend Lucas who serves tirelessly at the band camp getting a sauna ready for the guys

Autograph to share?      A signature on a check is less commonplace than it used to be as most of us are using cards or ...
02/12/2025

Autograph to share?
A signature on a check is less commonplace than it used to be as most of us are using cards or digital payments these days. Regardless, our names have worth! When I was a kid, my dad often said, “When you do something, it’s like signing your name to it.” You’re putting your autograph on each thing you do or are a part of.
This past month, a band I work with gave their fans an opportunity to be on the OTHER side of the autograph line, and it blew my mind. Most of the work I do around the touring community has me seeing “fans” WANTING something—an autograph, guitar pick, drum stick, hug, a photo—something they can TAKE. That doesn’t make it weird, it’s what being a fan is usually about. But when a fan changes seats with the band, and instead GIVES to them, that is a rare and holy moment. And through this band’s fundraiser for a new-to-them tour bus, I got a front row seat to that holy moment! It’s a blessing seeing those I serve be cared for and it has even helped to redefine how I see that band’s work; their fans are joining them in ministry.
I tell you this because 1) it blessed me to see a spirit of giving from a place where I normally see getting, and 2) I want to invite you to share your ‘autograph’ – signing your name to the ministry of LightsOut by joining us. This ministry takes prayer and caring from our community, but also takes financial resources. Your partnership helps cover the costs of travel to be with artists, the salary we live on, and the rising costs of insurance for our family–all of which are covered by our non-profit. We believe that who you are when you step off stage matters. We seek to serve artists thru discipleship teaching a life of Christ-like serving, not just in the bright moments, but also when the Lights go Out. Can you help us do that with a contribution? Head over to the LightsOut Giving Tuesday fundraiser please and thank you :)

02/12/2025

It's Giving Tuesday- a big day for LightsOut, can you help us reach our goal?!?!

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Sometimes people ask us about what Pastor Dave does as a chaplain to touring artists with LightsOut.   Often their follo...
23/10/2025

Sometimes people ask us about what Pastor Dave does as a chaplain to touring artists with LightsOut. Often their follow-up question is about how cool or fun the show is or the band is, and that is real- parts of every day are great. This is a good little peek into the rest of the day though- the 'tour life' that the artists we work with have as their reality. Not for pity, just for understanding - worth a quick read.

The Hidden Cost of Touring

Wake up on the bus. Don’t know the city. The time zone. You’re in Europe—can’t remember what country you’re in today. Shoes smell. Back hurts. Still fighting jet lag. No time to think. No time to feel.

Rough load-out. Bad sleep. Lukewarm shower. No lock. Forgot soap—again. Feeling low. Things unresolved at home. But you don’t say anything. Don’t want to bring others down. Don’t want anyone thinking you can’t do your job. So you push through. Take an Advil. Maybe three.

You check your phone. Text from dad: Mom’s in the hospital. No need to come home. Love you. You stare at it. When was this sent?

Then: bill past due. “When are you back?” “A/C’s broken.” “Did you get my message?” Messages come while you’re asleep. You reply at weird hours. Everything feels off.

“How you doing?” “Fine.” “Tired.” “Cool.” Keep moving. Load in. Fix gear. Skipped breakfast. Line check. Sound check. Guests. “Go for show.”

Tough show. A few mistakes. Thinking about mom. Too late to call now. Hope the band didn’t notice. Probably did.

Break down. Pack up. Bus call: 2am. Wired. Can’t sleep. Day off tomorrow. Then—repeat.

Final show. Final flight. Then—home. Crash hard. Wake up. Excited… but something’s off.

No call time. No radios. No forklift beeping. Just quiet. And it feels overwhelming. Like a loss. You miss the rhythm. The crew. Home feels distant. Routines gone. Starting back up feels impossible.

Now that you’re still… your back? It’s a herniated disc. You’ve been pushing through for weeks.

People at home missed you. You missed them. You try to explain… they don’t get it. They think it’s all fun and games. But the grind—eating, showering, no sleep, physical nature, disconnection—takes a toll. And things at home you still can’t fix.

Mom wasn’t okay. Your partner says they can’t do this anymore.

Touring gives. Touring takes. But tour won’t ever be your home—it’s not meant to be.

Take care of your relationships and your body. Stay connected to the people who know you, not just the version who works the stage.

Because someday, the road won’t be there.
And if you’ve let too much go—
the people you love might not be either.

Sad news from our friend James’s family & friends-  please help out of you can- there will be quite a large need
30/07/2025

Sad news from our friend James’s family & friends- please help out of you can- there will be quite a large need

Hey everyone. This post is a tough one to send out, but so many of you have supported us for so many years and today we are asking for your help. Our guitarist James has suffered a stroke and is currently in the hospital. He has a long road ahead of him and we are praying for a miraculous recovery.

Here is our ask:

1. Will you join with us in prayer for James, his wife Lindsay, and his son Jacob.

2. If you are able, please support their family financially to help with medical bills. Scan the QR code or click the link in the comments/bio to donate to the official GoFundMe for James and his family.

We thank you all for your continued support and prayers.

https://gofund.me/1717aed1

24/12/2024

What a fantastic challenge & gift to help us get to our goal- can you join us in reaching it?

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Grateful to have served on the  &  Air1 worship tour, so proud of  and proud to be part of his team for the work they ar...
02/12/2024

Grateful to have served on the & Air1 worship tour, so proud of and proud to be part of his team for the work they are doing to help kids all over the world!

18/10/2024

So thankful for the work we get to do with artists like Disciple. I love the words Josiah shared today! Join me in praying for the tour today, would you?

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Soul Care for the Touring Community

LightsOut seeks to be a consistent pastoral presence in the lives of artists, speakers, bands that are consistently away from theirs.

It is a process as much as a program; it's a hope and an idea that things can be better for those serving under the lights, and it is developing even as we develop. If you want to know more, email us at [email protected]

Dave writes, "So, I've been given this thought... that those who serve under the lights get chased the hardest when the Lights go Out. In my experience as one serving in a 'spotlight' position the last 15 years, I have experienced this chasing; the haunting feeling that I am not good enough, I don't have it, they'll soon find out what i'm really like- which isn't that great. I also have found that the feeling is the strongest right after it's the weakest. What I mean is, for me, right after things are the best, they are the worst, the darkest right after they are the brightest. Things are so good for so many when the lights are on, but when the kids go home, when the people leave, when the things are packed up, and that massive CLICK happens, when the lights go out... where do YOU go... how do YOU handle it... when the darkness chases, are you able to live LightsOut? What do 'you' look like when no one is there to look? LightsOut would like to help you explore those questions, help you connect with Hope, and shed light on the you that no one sees, so the you no one sees is the you that you've been created to be."

dave decker jr president/co-founder