Reclaimed Ministry

Reclaimed Ministry Reclaimed Ministry helps women recover from betrayal in their marriage offering hope and healing.

"You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending."—C.S. LewisIt's not ...
06/05/2026

"You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending."
—C.S. Lewis

It's not an easy step, but it's the most important first step you can take.

Focus on what you need to heal well. Here are a few suggestions:

🌱 Set firm and clear boundaries to protect your emotional well-being.
🌱 Join a recovery group for partners of those impacted by betrayal.
🌱 Give yourself the necessary emotional and physical space you need to focus on your healing journey.
🌱 Engage with journaling as a powerful tool to process your thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
🌱 Make self-care and soul-care a priority in your life.

You deserve to heal the right way.

Your body will always signal you when something isn't right.Your nervous system often clings to familiar chaos instead o...
06/05/2026

Your body will always signal you when something isn't right.

Your nervous system often clings to familiar chaos instead of embracing unfamiliar peace until you learn to heal and choose differently.

You might not remember why a specific person, place, moment, or thing causes dysregulation in your body, but your nervous system does. God created your body to retain knowledge as a protection mechanism and for celebration.

Healing occurs when truth is spoken.
Healing flourishes when emotions are expressed and felt.
Healing thrives when you are allowed to rest and restore.

The question is, are you listening to your body?
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06/04/2026

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Ask me to cry and I will on demand. It's grad week here, and we’ve been celebrating since our oldest graduated from coll...
06/03/2026

Ask me to cry and I will on demand.

It's grad week here, and we’ve been celebrating since our oldest graduated from college last month.

Grad parties with friends, senior skip day, baccalaureate, beautiful conversations, and words of praise spoken over our kids have me deep in the feels.

We’ve prayed for these days to come. Now I'm praying I won't be a mess at the actual graduation ceremony on Friday.

To all the kids moving up, moving out, or celebrating a massive accomplishment—congratulations! 💜💛💚

It will cost you something if you choose to engage with it.God created intimacy to be safe and free from shame.However, ...
06/02/2026

It will cost you something if you choose to engage with it.

God created intimacy to be safe and free from shame.

However, the opposite happens when the oneness of marriage is replaced with a meaningless connection.


Emotional dysregulation is a primary activation of addiction.

Shame fuels emotional dysregulation, and emotional pain can trigger cravings for relief.

Being set free of this toxic cycle is possible. (2 Corinthians 3:17)

There is a beautiful partnership that can develop when a person with an addiction reaches out for help—up to God and out to certified and trained specialists who God has gifted to help individuals understand the facts, recognize the impact of their choices, and create new pathways that promote healing.

Daily engage with God's Word to build strength and revival in your soul. The spiritual renewal that takes place when someone with an addiction chooses to resist the desires of their flesh increases when walking in recovery with God.

Remember, what you take in determines what goes back out.

To everyone committed to recovery and sobriety,
To those who have chosen to say no, and
To every marriage relearning together,
I celebrate another day of recovery in your life.

Conflict is uncomfortable.Growth can be painful.Silence can be awkward.Trauma is unwanted.And yet, these are potential o...
05/26/2026

Conflict is uncomfortable.
Growth can be painful.
Silence can be awkward.
Trauma is unwanted.

And yet, these are potential opportunities where healthy change and healing can take place.

To the couple feeling like roommates,
To the husband and wife working through restoration,
For the seasoned marriage just starting to pray together,
For the marriage jolted by discovery,
To the spouse seeking understanding for their negative choices,
To the bride in the process of recovery—I challenge you to view your discomfort as a catalyst for healing and a renewed connection.

I've seen countless times where rock bottom became so uncomfortable that the only option was for change.
I've seen discomfort turn into a place of desperation for God.
I've experienced the most awkward conversations pave the way for a rich connection that would not have been possible otherwise.
I've lived in discomfort and chose change because the pain and confusion in that place were not long-lasting.
I've process trauma because the best gift to myself was healing and understanding.

The most terrifying prayers I've spoken to God have been, "Lord, make me uncomfortable. Help me make sense of my situation."

If you're feeling discomfort, know that the Lord will be present with you in any change required for healing and according to His plan.

God, give me courage to confess, and grace to extend forgiveness.
05/25/2026

God, give me courage to confess, and grace to extend forgiveness.

Twenty-four years old. 💍There is so much I could say about us. I could share about everything we’ve learned together abo...
05/25/2026

Twenty-four years old. 💍

There is so much I could say about us.

I could share about everything we’ve learned together about each other and about marriage. I could share about our favorite memories and most important accomplishments.

The last swipe sums it up well: Sheer excitement, panic, and acceleration.

I wouldn't trade any year in for the love we have today.

Thanks to our kids watching the kids and allowing the parents a weekend away!

God, this loss hurts too much—Help me to honor the good parts of my relationship.⠀God, the lack of trust has me question...
05/23/2026

God, this loss hurts too much—Help me to honor the good parts of my relationship.⠀

God, the lack of trust has me questioning everything and everyone—Thank You for being the one constant I can rely on.

God, the images keep replaying in my mind—help me not to get stuck but to move forward with Your truth about who I am.⠀

God, I feel abandoned—thank You for always being present.⠀

God, I’m scared of what tomorrow will bring—remind me to rest in Your plan. ⠀

God, this feels overwhelming—please guide me through the next moment. ⠀

God, I couldn’t fix this on my own—thank You for loving me regardless. ⠀
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To the bride sitting at the table with her grief, pain, and sadness... ⠀
To the couple struggling to reconcile...⠀
To the bride and groom who are separated, wondering if it’s worth trying...⠀
And to the couple walking in restoration...
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God sees you; the blessings are still there.

I pray that today reveals its goodness to you.
                           

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