03/03/2026
I think the biggest thing is that people are people. Empaths or narcissists…
Everyone is hurting in their own way.
If we always are putting each other against each other how is anyone going to heal?
Empaths or narcissists…both are human.
Both are hurting and probably have some kind of trauma.
When we fight or push back. (Usually the narcissist..) then we don’t get anywhere.
Empaths or people who absorb others energy may take on someone else’s negative energy but then they need to leave. 3 strikes and you are out. Don’t give the narcissist any wiggle room.
Both people in a relationship can be narcissistic. Both people can be narcissists. When you fight too much then that is usually the case. If you feel you can step back and allow the other person to scream and yell and no longer feel the desire to speak back. You know you have your own truth and that confidence shows you the door. Two people that love each other talk to each other. Respect each other. Value each other’s opinions. Not get mad if your opinion isn’t the same as the others. That is a narcissist, but also a very hurt person who needs time to look within and repair what has broken them. They are mad for reasons that don’t have anything to do with you. They are mad out of pain, but can’t calm themselves to talk and not be upset at a different perspective. You can understand it, but it doesn’t mean you have to have it in your life. Not if you need to heal too.
We don’t need to accept anger, or negative belittling, condescending emotions in our life. Sometimes to take action for your own self-respect is what we have to do to continue to heal. It doesn’t mean we don’t care, it just means we aren’t on the same page at this moment.
God bless.
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