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09/05/2026

Heyyy BW Ladies
anon..
Ke kopa tiro ya bo maid or babysitting sitting um a girl of 20yrs go thata ke dropile Di application gantsi but aise ke bitswe 😭😭go thata ke batlo thusa nnake o kwala std 7 this year ..mme waka o nwa bojalwa mo a sa nneng mo lapeng😭😭😭😭ka tswe tswe, um in Bokaa um looking for a job at Morwa,Pilane ,Mochudi or Gabs..
kealeboga.

09/05/2026

Hi BW Ladies
Anon

Please ask women and men if it is worth it to wait for marriage I am a 26 year old woman and non of my relationships last, my age mates are getting married, having kids and I cannot keep a long term relationship... Is it really worth it kana basadi re nale mentality wa go pleaser banna to a certain extent ye eleng gore we would do anything to be relevant or be a pickme (not my words) also why is it that men prefer to sleep around in their youth and when they reach adulthood they want a "pure" woman... ke latlhegile

09/05/2026

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Phenyo Raphuti, Onks Onks

08/05/2026

08/05/2026

Good morning BW Ladies
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o nkopele dikgakololo
I am a mother of a seven year old boy.
Ke na le problem le my baby dad. He is 44 and self employed...I am holding a permanent job mo go goromente.
Our relationship is more than 15 years old. When I met him, he told ka ha a godileng ka teng, o godisitswe ke his mother and stepfather. But nako e ntsi a nna le nkukuagwe, mother to the stepfather. A re go ne go se bonolo gothelele, he was struggling even to get school uniform. According to him, gongwe mo botshelong o ka bo a le something better hanne e se kgodiso ya gagwe.
Fortunately todai the business he does enables him go itirela anything se a se batang.
Here is the problem, my baby dad has siblings (bo monnawe) who are not working. Ga a close le bone, he can stay for months a sa bue le bone. Ke kile ka leka go bua le ene ka se. He poured all his frustrations mo go nna, a bua gre bana bale ba mo imetse, he feels gre nako ya gre a lebe botshelo ba gagwe e gorogile. O ile a lela nako ya teng. His mother is not working, le ene ke na le feeling ya gre o kgakala le ene coz he can stay for months a sa mo romele madi a dijo bogolo,and when I try to remind him le gone ga go nne sente. He ends up crying, a di bua tsothe.
There is a lot ladies, gone jaana re a gola. Recently rraagwe ngwanake o simolotse go nwa over,even during weekdays ha gongwe ke re o ile tirong,spending madi a business recklessly (he had intentions tsa go nyala and bought some of dilwana tsa pato). But I still have a feeling ya gre o na le tiro e ntsi jwa go mmaagwe, ga a na setsha gape, but not in good terms le bo kgaitsadie gape.
So everytym I try to talk to him about spending money recklessly, o bua gre ene kana nako e nngwe o ikutwa a imetswe, ke nna yo ke itseng mathata a gagwe,and he expects me to support him instead of 'go mo omanya'
This thing se simolotse go nkimela, ke bona okare jaanong mathata a a goletseng mo go one jaanong e nna ame. No matter how much I try to be soft, a re ga ke mi akanyetse...o dule kwa g*e a ngaletse mmaagwe le bokgaitsadie bothe ka Jan. Up to now ga a ise a ba thole.
I've advised him to seek counseling, a re ene o siame, go setse nna go mo accepta...but I honestly can't accept him as he is...I feel he is broken and not fit for a relationship. O kgona go nna malatsinyana a re o a ipaakanya, then jiki jiki, he is back to square 1. Even our son is starting to get affected somehow. What shud I do ladies? Kindly advise.

07/05/2026

Hi BW Ladies
Anon

I’m a Form 5 girl and honestly I don’t even know where to start because my heart is shattered. I recently found out that my father is sleeping with my classmate, someone who has been my close friend for years. I feel betrayed in a way I can’t even explain. What hurts the most is that I never suspected anything. My dad has always treated me like his princess. He respected me, cared for me, never crossed any boundaries, and I trusted him completely. My friend too, we shared everything like sisters. So finding this out has left me angry, confused and disgusted. Now that I think back, maybe it all started when we were in Form 3. One rainy day my dad gave us a lift from school. He dropped me home first, then said he was taking her because he had a “meeting.” Looking back now, I keep wondering if that was the beginning of everything. These people have been so secretive and professional with their affair that I never picked up any signs all these years. I only discovered the truth recently when I asked for my friend’s phone so I could call my dad to come pick me up from school because I wasn’t feeling well. While using her phone, messages popped up, love messages. Calling each other “babe,” “darling,” and all those sweet names couples use. My heart literally stopped. Since then, I haven’t been okay. Every time I look at her in class, I feel anger boiling inside me. Every time I see my father acting normal at home, I feel like screaming. I haven’t confronted him because I want him to think I don’t know yet. The hardest part is my mother. I feel guilty keeping this from her, but I’m also terrified that telling her could destroy my family and lead to divorce. I feel trapped carrying such a heavy secret alone. I never imagined my father could be involved with a girl my age, my own classmate for that matter. BW Ladies, what would you do if you were me? Should I tell my mother? Should I confront my father first? Or should I stay quiet until I figure things out? Right now I’m hurt, angry and completely lost.

23/03/2026

Hi Bw ladies
Anonymous
Well I went to a scout New Year’s Eve party in Maun the party included us drinking alcohol and I will say I was underage at that time and I got drunk to a point where I didn’t even see what was happening but I remember I came wearing other clothes then I changed to my suprise I woke up Ke apere the clothes I came with and let me mention I was a Virgin at that time I didn’t know anything at all but I remember a touch of beard on my face and me trying to cover my privates part.
So ha Ke tsoga ke fa ke lapile still not remembering anything very well which makes me suspect being drugged I went home that day and when I slept at night everything came as in flashbacks but really couldn’t see who it was but the touch of the beard made me realize who it was
I wanted to report but I already wiped out the evidence by bathing it will just be a case with no evidence also I was scared of people knowing I was r***d more especially at a place where I thought I was safe and it always pains me when I see young girls saying they are SCOUTS I believed that I will be disciplined there but rather it destroyed my mental health I didn’t deserve that
To this day my mom doesn’t know what happened that day why quit scouting because of the fear of people knowing I was r***d I suffered in silence cried a lot asking myself why me it let to a point where suicidal thoughts came in .Family issues added to the weight and I attempted su***de more than 3 times tried counseling but all I think is it can’t undo what happened to me that day

They are predators out there looking for fresh young preys in the name of disclipinary acts so be careful

23/03/2026

Hello BW Ladies
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I'm a married woman.... My husband is a cheater koore ke senokwane o kase mo akanyetse go cheater Le omo lebile. Nkile ka motshwara 3 years back a jola ko tirong yone female bestie rra e ke sa bolong go mmelaela ka yone ne kare Kea motlogela a kopa maitshwarelo a tsaya Le transfer a nkatumela ga nna botoka because ne re nna re bonana more frequently distance ne ese bad jaaka lantlha okay ka nna le di password tsa gagwe ka lebala le gore o kile a cheater end of last year I started suspecting gore okatswa a jola gape ko tirong but couldn't find anything on his what's app and call history then I decided to link our phones message tsa gagwe di tsena Le ko go nna ijo I found out gore o jola gape ko tirong I've been a good wife and good mother to our kids (koore ke itsaya tsia ke lekgarebe fela LA seithati koore leko bedroom I try my best. I never cheated him koore ke ipotsa gore ga a kgotsofalle eng ntse re tshela peacefully re utlwana mme kafa a dira dilo a iphitlhile so ke nale dilemma ke batla go simolla go tshameka game ya teng lenna and cheat back Lenna ke utlwe a different dick ga kena sepe lefa aka ntshwara maybe otla understand pain he caused ka gore Gaise a robiwe pelo Kea bona. Pelo e nngwe yare ke lebe game fela and be calm,detach myself and focus on my personal growth after healing maybe il find courage to walk away lefa Kea go kopana Le another cheater 😢what will you do if you were in this situation? Gaise ke batle go divorce yet

23/03/2026

Hi BW Ladies
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l sow a story of a mother about her child ,To be honest this thing of is happening wth my son 😔 sometimes his chewing, talking, laughing in the middle of the night,then one day he told me that he sometimes doesn't sleep at home n before going out he has to drink a lot of water so that he wlb able to go out of the house without opening the door 😃.
it was funny at first and then last month again he started complaining of not having enough sleep n bieng tired and always sleeping in e class..
this thing had effected him a lot at school,his doing st 1 😔,as m speaking he remembers nothing even his name he can't write it anymore..wat he knows is to do some strange dance n horrifying laughter 😩😩n its driving me crazy