09/09/2025
We began working with Lila Szyryj because I, as Elyse’s mom, realized that it was time to step back and bring in a professional. Just like you’d hire a coach for any sport, we knew it was time to have someone with experience, insight, and heart guide Elyse through this next chapter of her journey. That decision has turned out to be one of the best we’ve ever made.
Lila is far more than just a pageant coach—she’s a mentor, a role model, and a grounded, steady presence. What makes her truly stand out is her holistic approach. She’s not coaching to one pageant or chasing a single crown. She’s focused on the whole girl in front of her—helping her grow into the best version of herself, not just for the stage, but for life. Her lessons go beyond walk, wardrobe, and interview prep; they’re about confidence, character, grace, and growth.
Our most recent international pageant was our best yet—not only because Elyse felt strong and prepared, but because, for the first time, we didn’t argue. Lila helped us both approach the experience with more clarity and calm. That alone was a gift.
While Lila didn’t create the village that’s raising Elyse, she is now a cherished and irreplaceable part of it. Her influence continues to shape Elyse into the intelligent, thoughtful, and resilient young woman she’s becoming.
If you’re considering a coach for your daughter, I wholeheartedly recommend Lila. Not just because she knows pageants inside and out, but because she knows girls—and she truly cares about helping each one blossom into the woman she’s meant to be.