Women Inspiring Women

12/07/2024

Know your worth ladies ❤️

27/06/2024

10 KINDS OF GUYS YOU SHOULD NOT MARRY
1. The Narcissist:
A Narcissist has an inflated sense of his own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. He is manipulative, exploitative, has fragile self-esteem, has sense of entitlement and lacks empathy – don’t marry him
2. The Commitment-Phobic:
If he consistently avoids discussions about the future or commitment, it could be a sign he's not ready for a serious relationship.
3. The Mama's Boy:
If he is overly dependent on his mother and seeks her approval in everything, it can create tension in your relationship. He is still tied to his mother’s apron strings – let him be!
4. The Control Freak:
This man may try to control every aspect of your life, from what you wear, to who you see, to where you go. Someone who always needs to be in control can make it difficult to maintain a healthy, balanced partnership.
5. The Serial Cheater:
Trust is the foundation of any successful marriage, and someone who has a history of infidelity may not be capable of building or maintaining that trust. Don’t give what is holy to a dog.
6. The Perpetual Adolescent:
While a sense of fun and playfulness is important, someone who refuses to take on adult responsibilities or make mature decisions may not be ready for marriage. He is a baby husband in the making
7. The Abuser:
Whether it's physical, emotional, or psychological abuse, any form of mistreatment should be a clear red flag.
8. The Addict:
Whether it's drugs, alcohol, gambling, or any other addiction, being in a relationship with a man who is struggling with addiction can be challenging and stressful. Don’t inherit a liability.
9. The Unresolved Baggage Holder:
"Unresolved baggage" refers to emotional issues or traumas from the past that have not been adequately addressed or processed. Examples are childhood trauma, low self-esteem, identity crises, negative belief patterns etc.
10. The Financially Irresponsible:
If a man is unable to manage his finances or constantly relies on others for financial support, it can create stress and instability in your relationship.

22/05/2024

THINGS I WILL TELL MY KIDS WHEN THEY GET OLDER…

1. If the relationship fails, come home.
2. If the bills become too much, come home.
3. If your mental health gets the best of you, come home.
4. If you ever feel alone, come home.
5. If you mess up, come home.
6. No matter where you are in life, how old are you, you can always come home. My home will forever be your home.

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18/05/2024

To all my female friends 50 years and up.

Most of us are ageing through the next phase of our lives. We're at the age where we see wrinkles, grey hair, and extra weight.

We see cute 25-year-olds and reminisce.

But we were also 25, just as they will one day be our age. We aren't those "girls in their summer clothes" anymore. What they bring to the table with their youth and zest, we bring our wisdom and experience.

We have raised families, run households, paid the bills, dealt with diseases, sadness and everything else life has assigned us.
Some of us have lost those that we're nearest and dearest to us.

We are survivors.
We are warriors in the quiet.
We are women, like a fine wine or classic car.

Even if our bodies aren't what they once were, they carry our souls, our courage, and our strength. We shall enter this chapter in our lives with humility, grace, and pride over everything we have been through, and we should never feel bad about getting older.

It's a privilege that is denied to so many.

17/05/2024

W O M A N:
● changes her name.
● changes her home.
● leaves her family.
● moves in with you.
● builds a home with you.
● gets pregnant, the pregnancy changes her body.
● she gains weight
● almost gives up in the labor room due to the unbearable pain of childbirth..
● even the kids she delivers bear your name.. ———————————————————
Til the day she dies.. everything she does... cooking, cleaning your house, taking care of your parents, bringing up your children, earning, advising you, ensuring you can be relaxed, maintaining all family relations, everything that benefits you. sometimes at the cost of her own health, hobbies, and beauty.
So who is really doing whom a favor?
Dear men, appreciate the women in your lives always, because it is not easy to be a woman.
Being a woman is priceless

16/05/2024

Share this one with all the men in your lives.

Most men in this generation doesn't understand its not about giving her the world, but it's actually about making her feel like she's a priority in yours.

It's about surprising her with a sweet text throughout the day to remind her you're thinking about her.

It's about coming home from work and asking about her day because you genuinely care about the answer.

It's about going to the refrigerator to get yourself a drink, and you get her one without even asking.

It's about driving down a backroad and you pull off to the side to pick her some beautiful wild flowers.

It's about cuddling on the couch in sweatpants and binge watching your favorite show on Netflix together.

It's about taking her to her favorite restaurant unannounced.

It's about slow dancing with her in the rain to a song that was written by George Strait.

It's about calling her randomly and asking how she is doing because you care about her mental health.

It's about laying her favorite dress on the bed with a note that says "put this on and be ready by 7pm".

It's about knowing the smallest details about her, like the way she likes her coffee in the morning, or her favorite smell, or what movies make her cry.

It's about going to a local ice cream parlor on a Saturday afternoon to talk about your life goals together over a couple hot fudge sundaes.

Take my advice and remember...... it doesn't always have to cost much money, it just needs to catch her off guard.

09/05/2024

Never underestimate the power of dreams and the influence of the human spirit. We are all the same in this notion: The potential for greatness
lives within each of us.

None of us are getting out of here alive, so please stop treating yourself like an after-thought. Eat delicious food. Walk in the sunshine. Jump in the ocean. Say the truth that you're carrying in your heart like hidden treasure. Be silly. Be kind. Be weird.
There's no time for anything.

Gratitude will take you far 💥

22/04/2024

19/04/2024

15/04/2024

The way people view you.

Sometimes I think about the different characters I play in everybody’s story.
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I’m a terrible person in some people's narratives and a Godsend in others.
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And none of it has anything to do with the person I truly am.
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The lens that others view you through is coloured by their upbringing, beliefs, and individual experiences.
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Some people see your bright personality as endearing and others see it as annoying.
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Some people think you’re weak and emotional and others feel safe to be themselves around you.
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Some people think you’re rude and selfish and others respect the way you stand up for yourself.
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Some people admire the way you take pride in the way you look and others think you’re conceited.
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And none of it has to do with who you truly are as a person.
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What you have to understand is that you have no authority over how people view you so never try to control the way others see you because the only thing that truly matters when the dust settles down at the end of the day is what you genuinely see in yourself.