10/09/2026
A little follow-up from me. 💛
I’ve spent a huge chunk of today trying to reply to as many of you as I physically can on my R U OK? post, particularly the people who have said, “Actually… no, I’m not okay.”
There are a lot of you.
I’m trying. I really am. But between being a mum, a wife, running this page and occasionally remembering I’m also supposed to feed myself 😂 I simply cannot physically get to every single comment.
There’s no team behind this page. No social media manager sitting in an office answering you. It’s literally just me, my phone and my one remaining brain cell doing its absolute best. 😂❤️
But reading through the comments today made me realise something.
We’ve accidentally built a pretty bloody beautiful little community here.
We’re unhinged. We take the p**s. We argue about pedestrian crossings and pub meals and whatever other ridiculous s**t I decide to post…
But underneath all of that, we still give a f**k about each other.
So I’m asking you guys for something.
If you’re scrolling through the comments and you see someone say they’re not okay, and you’re in a good enough place yourself to give five minutes, maybe reply to them.
You don’t need to fix them. You don’t need the perfect words. Sometimes just, “Hey mate, I saw your comment. Are you alright?” is enough to make somebody feel a little less invisible.
A few people have said today that R U OK? Day can feel like a corporate box-ticking exercise everyone asks today and tomorrow we move on.
I understand that completely.
But maybe we don’t have to move on.
This is actually why I ask you guys so many random questions and get conversations going on this page. Because somewhere amongst all the absolute f**king nonsense, people connect.
So look after each other in here. ❤️
And if you are really struggling tonight, please don’t sit with it alone. Reach out to someone you trust, or contact Lifeline on 13 11 14 (24/7), text 0477 13 11 14, or if you’re in immediate danger call 000.
Stay unhinged, legends.
But most importantly, stay here. ❤️