03/03/2026
Who is a guilty parent of rushing through the "to-do" list because it is faster and cleaner? Even though knowing that doing so we are missing a vital window to build our children's character? π«£πππ½
"Can I Help You?" they tend to ask us in their early years. What tends to be your immediate and usual response?
By accepting their offer to help out and letting them take the lead with some chores (cutting the veggies, setting/cleaning up the dining table, watering the garden, sorting tools, etc) we are moving our kids from "being served" to "being confident and capable", we are helping them to become a contributor rather than just an observer. Our positive response fosters a deep sense of belonging as they realise the family is a team and they are a vital member of it. The more we welcome and encourage those "Can I Help You's" the more we ensure they won't be overwhelmed when they eventually head out on their own.
If you are a dad with these kind of questions, and you are looking for a community, join a bunch of other curious dads this Friday 6th March from 6:45pm. It is our third Dads Gathering of this year and we are waiting for you. Reach out.
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