Lisa Harnum Foundation

10/06/2026

09/06/2026

The right to know about someone’s violent past

09/06/2026

“I didn’t realise I was in a coercive control relationship.
It happened slowly… one boundary at a time.

I lost my confidence, my voice, my health, and eventually myself.

I didn’t know how to leave or where to begin until I walked into a Safe Room and met a case worker from Lisa Harnum Foundation.

For the first time in years, someone listened without judgment.
They helped me understand what was happening to me, guided me through the next steps, and reminded me that freedom was possible.

Years of abuse left me with PTSD and a life-threatening brain tumour brought on by prolonged stress and trauma.

Today, I have rebuilt my life.
I have my health back.
I have a new career.
I have peace.
I finally feel safe again.”
— LHF Survivor Story

This EOFY, your donation can help another woman take her first step towards safety, healing, and freedom.

Many victim-survivors don’t recognise coercive control until they are deeply isolated, emotionally exhausted, and fearful of what comes next.

Our Safe Rooms and case workers provide compassionate support, practical guidance, and hope during some of the darkest moments of a person’s life.

Every donation helps us continue this lifesaving work.

Please support the Lisa Harnum Foundation EOFY Appeal today.

Donate here:
https://domestic-violence-awareness-2025.raiselysite.com

Together, we can help more women rebuild their lives.

09/06/2026

Maria almost died after being stabbed in a horrific domestic violen...

07/06/2026

🚩 Signs Your Friend, Sister, Daughter or Colleague May Be Experiencing Coercive Control

Coercive control isn’t usually one big event. It’s a pattern of behaviours designed to dominate, isolate, and control another person.

Here are some signs to look for:

🔹 They have become withdrawn from family and friends.

🔹 They constantly check in with their partner or seem afraid of upsetting them.

🔹 They cancel plans at the last minute because their partner doesn’t approve.

🔹 They no longer make decisions independently and seek permission for everyday activities.

🔹 Their confidence and self-esteem have noticeably declined.

🔹 They seem anxious, fearful, or constantly worried about their partner’s reactions.

🔹 They have limited access to money or are being questioned about every purchase.

🔹 They stop participating in hobbies, interests, or activities they once loved.

🔹 Their partner monitors their phone, social media, location, or messages.

🔹 They frequently make excuses for controlling or concerning behaviour.

🔹 They appear isolated and increasingly dependent on their partner.

🔹 They say things like:
• “It’s easier if I don’t argue.”
• “He doesn’t like me seeing certain people.”
• “I have to ask first.”
• “I don’t want to upset them.”

If you recognise these signs, don’t judge. Don’t pressure them to leave.

Instead:
❤️ Listen.
❤️ Believe them.
❤️ Stay connected.
❤️ Let them know support is available.

One safe conversation could be the first step towards freedom.

If you’re concerned about someone you love, reach out to the Lisa Harnum Foundation on 1300 732 848.

01/06/2026

11 children.

11 young lives lost.

11 futures that will never be lived.

And yet, Australia still has no clear plan to address the devastating impact of domestic and family violence on our children.

Domestic and family violence is not just a women’s issue. It is a children’s issue. A community issue. A national crisis.

Every child deserves to feel safe in their own home. Every child deserves a future free from fear, trauma and violence.

At the Lisa Harnum Foundation, we believe change starts with awareness, education, support and action.

💜 Learn the signs.
💜 Support victim-survivors.
💜 Speak up when something doesn’t feel right.
💜 Advocate for stronger prevention and intervention.
💜 Help us continue providing life-changing support through our Safe Rooms and community programs.

We cannot bring these children back, but together we can work to ensure fewer names are added to this heartbreaking statistic.

Because one child lost is one too many.

Visit www.lhf.org.au to learn more, support our work, or make a donation.

28/05/2026

Sometimes the people closest to us don’t realise they are in a coercive control relationship.

It happens slowly.
One boundary at a time.

You may notice they have become withdrawn, anxious, isolated from friends and family, constantly needing permission, financially controlled, or no longer feeling like themselves.

Instead of asking,
“Why don’t you just leave?”
try asking,
“Are you okay?”
“How can I support you?”
“You don’t seem like yourself lately.”

One safe conversation can become the first step towards freedom.

If you recognise the signs in a sister, friend, daughter, colleague, or someone you love:

* listen without judgment
* avoid criticising their partner aggressively
* gently encourage professional support
* help them reconnect with trusted people
* remind them they are not alone

Most importantly, let them move at their own pace while knowing support exists when they are ready.

Coercive control thrives in silence and isolation.
Awareness, compassion, and safe support can help change — and even save — a life.

28/05/2026

Australia has established several Fixated Threat Assessment Centres that team up police, mental health practitioners and other experts to monitor and manage the risk of lone-actor terrorists and individuals who are fixated on public figures.

Now, a world-first research project is hoping to do the same with domestic violence — to prevent family and intimate partner homicides with similar strategies to those being used to tackle terrorism and lone-actor attacks.

A world-first research project is aiming to prevent family and intimate partner homicides with similar strategies to those being used to tackle terrorism and lone-actor attacks.

25/05/2026

Need a bit of a helping hand? 💛 We’re here for you.

Our Community Pantry is open again this week.

Tuesday 26 May, 11am–12pm at church.
(1 View St, Stanhope Gardens)

Come along and choose from a range of pantry items and fill a bag or two for $15 each. We’ll also have FREE fresh fruit and veggies available.

If you’re experiencing urgent hardship and can’t afford the $15, please don’t let that stop you from coming. Have a chat with one of our friendly volunteers - support is available and we would love to help.

Please share to help us reach anyone who may need a helping hand. Everyone is welcome.

23/05/2026

We grieve. A woman and her two children have lost their lives in Campbelltown in what is being reported as a domestic and family violence tragedy. We know who they were: a mother. Children. A family that deserved safety and a future.

The Lisa Harnum Foundation extends its deepest condolences to their family, their community, and to all those who loved them. We also acknowledge the first responders, advocates, case workers, and support workers who carry the emotional weight of this work every day, and who will feel today’s news deeply.

This is not an isolated incident. It is part of a devastating pattern that continues to impact Australian women and children with heartbreaking regularity. Behind every statistic is a person, a story, and a life that mattered.

At the Lisa Harnum Foundation, we work alongside women rebuilding their lives after coercive control and domestic violence. We see every day the courage it takes to leave, and the support needed to stay safe, heal, and begin again. We also know how much more needs to be done.

Today is a reminder that this work cannot wait.

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 000.
For crisis support, contact 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732 or Lifeline on 13 11 14
Or LHF 1300 732 848