17/06/2026
Yesterday was scary one for usđ
We were mid-way through my daughterâs 3rd week of horse riding lesson when the horse got spooked out of nowhere bucking, frightened, completely out of control. It was the one lesson I couldnât be there for in person đ as my son was having nervous system overload day. And I stayed home with him. So she went with her support worker instead for the first time and her support worker had also just started with our family a few weeks ago.
We rushed straight to emergency. X-rays on her spine, head, left hand, and left thigh. Right now weâre still waiting on results and holding onto hope that sheâll be okay.
Iâm not sharing this for sympathy but only because this is real life of motherhood and Parenting.The unscripted, accidental and unfiltered parts too. Parenting (and life itself ) isnât just the wins we post. Sometimes itâs sitting in a hospital hallway waiting, scared, frightened, helpless and hopeful all at once.
My sweet love has been so brave through all of this. I hugged her for as long as I could seeing her in so much pain. Hugs are one of her favourite comforts from me, so I held on. Like always, I encouraged her express whatever she was feeling Inside, the fear, anger, disappointment,sadness and reminded her that sheâs allowed to cry it all out if wanted like to.She looked so pale and in complete shock trying to understand what had happened and why. Sheâs the kind of person who tends to hold everything in and stay quiet.
Honestly,These are one of the moments I really miss my family the most especially my parents. I often end up feeling quite alone as my husband (The kidsâ dad) is hardly home. Being a tradie means he often works away and on the day he was too far to get there quickly, even though he desperately wanted to.
The day had already been overwhelming enough for us before the accident and I was holding it all alone.
I just wanted to let you all know in case you donât see us around for a bit and would really appreciate any thoughts or prayers right nowđ